Just let you know i a glad to see yur site, there is so much need for good help. I started a self help group for mothers and their children, in order to support htem in a long and painfull process. For te mothers there is not so much help. Abusers can have better and cheaper help, the child has to wait months or even years to recieve responses and the abuses can even been relaxed. Then the mother must bring the child to the abuser,because proves are never high enough and he was not convicted to the court About 90 %claims remain without result and in the other cases the abuser can be free after one or two months expecilaaly if he accept therapy. What is therapy? There is no money enough to keep them under control for life, so the children are never safe and just do not feel safe when meeting him in the street, or at school. I wish there would be groups for mothers all over the world, so the mothers could better support their abused children. "Mothers against incest adj" Prosper Claeysstraat 5 in 9000 Ghent, East Flanders,Belgium e-mail address mtiadj@hotmail.com

-- andrea de jong (andrea.de.jong@pandora.be), March 11, 2002

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Thank you for your comments. However I know, from personal experience, that women abuse children also. I am still living with the damedge.

-- Bill (feeheny@email.com), March 12, 2002.