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          WE PACKED UP our 
gloves and bats and drove away from the field and straight into a line of tanks 
driving down a main thoroughfare. “It’s a coup!,” I cried. “Nonsense, darling,” 
my mother said. “It’s a parade.” That was before she noticed the soldiers’ guns 
were cocked and pointed. We spent the night stranded at a friends’ house, 
huddling away from windows and listening to Russian MiGs strafe the presidential 
palace. It was indeed a coup—the toppling of President Muhammed Daoud by 
leftists. They were aided, of course, by Afghanistan’s “Great Friends to the 
North,” the Soviets, who swiftly made their official claim on the country in 
January 1979, when they rolled in and kick-started multiple chains of events 
that eventually led to last week’s horror in New York—and the potential for new 
horrors to come in Afghanistan itself.          You 
haven’t seen nostalgia until you talk to anyone—Afghan or foreign—who had the 
luck to live in Afghanistan before its destruction. In the 1970s, the country 
was poor but relatively peaceful. The foreigners who came, either as earnest 
Peace Corps volunteers, development consultants or diplomats, wore their 
missions lightly. (Indeed, some say too lightly: there were rumors, inevitable 
and never confirmed, that one of my Little League coaches was CIA.)   
      In the late 1970s, Afghanistan was considered a diplomatic 
and political backwater, but for many foreigners living in Kabul, it was an 
enchanting one. Instead of military experts and MiGs, hippies traipsed through 
in search of cheap hash and easy enlightenment. The legendary melons and grapes 
were sweet, the Afghans bright and hospitable, and for ordinary people like my 
parents, the challenge of trying to help the country develop wasn’t weighed down 
by any Great Games. My father was a law professor who was sent to Afghanistan as 
an advisor to the minister of justice. The idea was that he would help modernize 
the country’s legal system. He’d set off in the morning on his Raleigh bicycle 
to ride to the “Dr. Zhivago”-like palace and pore over legal codes. He’d address 
law societies, with French-trained Afghan lawyers and miniskirted female lawyers 
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