So, are you a wimp? Can you tell people how you feel? Do you fearlessly plunge into burning buildings?

-- Meghan (meghan@blurredlines.com), July 21, 2000

Answers

I can't say no. That is my biggest problem with people. If they ask something of me, whether I want to or not, almost always I say yes. I can't tell people how I feel exactly, which creates quite a few problems with relationships. They're not mindreaders damnit! :D

-- Crystal (cforsley@mail.com), July 22, 2000.

Burning buildings - - - well with the proper equipment and back up I would be happy to. I have never had any trouble saying what I feel, in as peaceful terms as possible. And reiterating if necessary

-- Denver doug (ionoi@webtv.net), July 22, 2000.

ummm, i'm a wimp with girls... especially in person. i just turn into a friggin manequin.

-- tim (notekaudio@aol.com), July 26, 2000.

Definately a wimp. expecially with girls as well. One really nice girl actually asked me to sign her yearbook, I mumbled somthing even I 'm not sure what I said, then a scribbled something in the yearbook that I could'nt even read.

-- Ken McDanniel (deus670@hotmail.com), July 28, 2000.

Oh, my gosh, I am the BIGGEST wimp.

I grew up with my mother telling me not to let anyone know when they had upset me because it was weak. My father would tell me not to let anyone see me cry because it was weak. Is it any wonder I am so screwed up now?

I would rather take ALL kinds of abuse than talk about it or let them see me cry. And yes, now I'm a big girl and I know that it ISN'T always weak to show emotions, but old habits die hard. It's next to impossible for me to honestly say face to face to someone what I am thinking if I think it will make me vulnerable or hurt them. Writing is a different story. I can rip someone a new asshole in a letter or pour my heart out to them. It's just very rare that a person will actually GET one of those letters...hehe.

So yeah. I'm a big wuss.

-- Suz (Suzanne833@aol.com), August 03, 2000.