What gets you hot and bothered?

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Are you primarily visual? A smile, cleavage, tan lines?

Scent-ual? I've heard the smell of cinnamon does it for a lot of people. But maybe you like the smell of the ocean or patchouli or sweat?

Physical? Gently brushing against someone special, having your back rubbed, being tickled?

Do tell.

-- Jackie (jackie@mail.jackie.nu), June 06, 2000


I have to dish out my secrets? What's in this for me? :)

Scent -- cinnamon, YES! But just the smell of his hair, his cologne, his clothes.

Visual -- oooh, the butt, the butt! But the first thing I notice are the eyes. I can tell so much about a persom by looking them straight in the eye.

Physical -- uh, when my palms are lightly tickled watch out! Ear nibbling. Kisses on the forehead. A nice back rub does me in, too.

-- marilyn (marilynis@home.com), June 06, 2000.

What gets me hot?? My new apartment!! Hot as hell in here now and all the time, even with fans turned on and windows open wide..

Oh.. you mean the other kind of hot??

Physically - I don't know why, but I melt when I am grabbed and held from behind. Maybe it's a possesion thing for me.. a woman grabs me and holds me, it's like saying "mine and no one else can have" and I find that not only sweet, but a turn on - Of course it goes without saying I guess the holder would have to be someone I know and not some stranger..


-- Arthur (art_m@telusplanet.net), June 06, 2000.

Alright. I suppose I should answer my question.

I love being touched on the top of my chest...somewhere between my collar bone and my breasts. Almost as nice is the feel of lips on my neck.

Smells? Lavendar. I don't know why...but I really like it. And a persons natural smell. Particularly right out of the shower. Mmmm.

Visual? The blush of skin before and the flush of it afterward. The smile of anticipation and the smile of satisfaction. Huge turn ons.

-- Jackie (jackie@jackie.nu), June 07, 2000.

Eyes will do me in every time. My boyfriend is half black so his skin is semi-dark, but his eyes are a light green and after about a year and a half, they still make me swoon.

The smell of his cologne is wonderful. I also love the smell of vanilla.

Having my neck massaged works. And i love little else the way i love having him play with my hair when i'm lying down beside him.

-- Sherry (sherina@masc.ca), June 07, 2000.

I started writing a big long post here, and then I thought 'hey! this could be a journal entry' and since I'm low on inspiration I figured I should take it where I can get it : )

I'll let you know the results.

-- Cara (cara@golden.net), June 07, 2000.

Let's see...we've been married for 18 years now. And it's still as exciting today as it was the first day. The touch of his lips on my neck....backrubs......when he takes the hairbrush and brushes my hair.....hot-tub time.......going to a romantic movie.......when he paints my toenails........when he has his spandex bike shorts on.....egads......slow walks and talks in the evening.......When I hear his voice on the phone...lots of phone sex....taking a bubblebath together.....when he reads to me in bed.......and he is always reading about new ways to enjoy intimacy. I get to be his experiment! It's always something new.....The ice cube thing was cool, in more ways than one. The honey thing didn't work out. But the finger thing at the same time as the....yeah, that's a keeper. Sigh.....

-- Planet Earth (imagine@industrial-ideas.com), June 14, 2000.

Massages. Absolutely, massages.

-- Christine (cdaae@darkgoddess.com), July 12, 2000.

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